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koreakiwi's avatar

Thanks for giving us the low down on this Katrina - my 2 cents is that this billboard is deliberately ambiguous AND it erases biological women - it's a really insidious nasty billboard and well deserves calling out. It reeks of TRA messaging to erase women as a sex to be replaced with gender ideology. It's disgusting how biological adult human females are being gaslit in this way - subsuming and erasing them by playing the whanau/family card. As you and others have detailed so well - this is a strategy used by the Midwifery Council already to gaslight and erase individual women. They may as well have said 'people who have ovaries' / 'ovary owners' and all the rest of the misogynist BS terms that try to subvert language about biological women's bodies and health. We know what "Ovarian cancer can affect anyone" is about.

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Gaslighting: psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typically leads to confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, uncertainty of one's emotional or mental stability, and a dependency (on the perpetrator).

The ambiguity should be questioned. It’s deliberate, devious and devilishly designed to silence women and make them self-silence in the future because a seed of doubt has been sown and there’s a smidge of a chance they may be wrong 😑. It’s typical abuser/groomer behaviour. Don’t feel bad, don’t feel guilty, don’t ever be what your abuser needs or wants you to be.

Not personally directed at you Katrina #justsaying.

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