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Terf vibes's avatar

Clearly women's safety and privacy are of no importance to NZ Post. Shameless sexist shit.

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Katrina Biggs's avatar

Women? What women?

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Linda Joyce's avatar

Nice work, Katrina. I've subscribed so looking forward to more.

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Katrina Biggs's avatar

Thank you :-)

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J.M.Venning's avatar

Perpetrator figures are probably higher as many crimes cruelties, abuses and abusers are not documented as not reported. To give another statistic that has held for a while it is one in eight males experiencing violence, a few sexually abused by women, but majority by males.

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Katrina Biggs's avatar

Interesting stat about 1 in 8 males experiencing violence, as it's usually reported that males are victims of violence (predominantly by other men) more than women are. I know that there is more to it than that sentence implies, but the 1 in 8 men compared to 1 in 3 women struck me, as I'm guessing that men under-report violence from other men, too.

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J.M.Venning's avatar

Read Gaill Dines or rrcent book by Melinda Tankard Reist, He chose porn over me.

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J.M.Venning's avatar

Porn dehumanizing. I have been in Statesvon numerous occasions and traveled widely it is not a free or enlightened democracy!

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J.M.Venning's avatar

Good for you. If I can niggles, would leave out sentence which begins Most men will not hurt women...' untrue, as women are 1 in 3 the victims of men in Aotearoa and in other countries stats are worse.

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Katrina Biggs's avatar

Does the 1 in 3 statistic of women being victims of male violence in NZ equate with 1 in 3 men committing that violence?

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J.M.Venning's avatar

No. Most men use porn. Gail Dines research. Women die at men's hands every few minutes.

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J.M.Venning's avatar

Divorce Marek is death for many women. Abuser kills for being rejected.

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One example of a msle is well known Dancing with Stars Aaron Gilmore. He is son of one of my first cousins. He took his abuser his female dance teacher to cou

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Court, he was believed he win his case. Courageous. Was however vilified by some women relatives. He is a good msn, a good father to two children. Has now come out as gay.

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