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Lundy Bancroft's book _Why Does He Do That?_ is *really* good on the magical ability of supposedly traumatized subfunctional poor dears to distinguish very clearly between safe targets (old ladies) and hard targets (other grown men) and "safe" spaces (rallies devoted to shouting women down, the privacy of the home) and "dangerous" spaces (the workplace, the grocery store, the gym -- places where somehow they can magically control their "bad tempers" and their "outbursts" and their "lashing out")

Shame on that judge.

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Yes, quite remarkable how they can manage to exercise control over themselves when lashing out might not go quite so well for them.

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am going to check the book out now. thank you.

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Check for frilly underwear under those judicial robes...

NZ is a small community, apparently the name & shame is all over social media.

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Thanks Katrina...good points re 'mental capacity' and regarding needing 'to be dragged off' by men whom he did not feel he had to assault.

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Wonderful article…. Judith no doubt has PTSD. Her life changed. This GLUB is incompetent, I sincerely hope he and his elk realise this judge has brought their profession into disrepute. Shameful.

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Using the word 'tard' as an insult puts you on the same level as the TRA.

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Ah, well - I admit I’ve failed dismally at being perfect.

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Pitiful Chris be ashamed. Your comment tells women everywhere who you are. Shameful. Revolted.

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Disability hatred isn't something to be proud of you vile creature.

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Chris, perhaps my blog isn't a good fit for you. I won't be moderating my language because of how someone chooses to interpret it, and then tries to shame me, or anyone else, with insults for it based on that interpretation. Unsubscribing to me may be the happiest option for you.

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Grow up ffs

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Said just like a virtue signalling woketard

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No, you are wrong and as scummy as the TRA

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Because words are *literal* violence. Grow the eff up.

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Strange to suggest that disability hatred doesn't matter!

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How about you check your women-hating reflex before accusing women, who are fighting this timeless, insitutionalised hatred led by men who barely think women are human, of 'hatred'.

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