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Aug 4, 2023Liked by Katrina Biggs

My 7 year old daughter asked me why a man was in the women's bathroom with us at The mall! How absolutely inappropriate is that!!!! Why should it be normalized to children that men are allowed in girls private spaces just because they feel entitled to??? What about the dignity if young girls and young women? My daughter has started a shy phase when undressing etc... why should she be confused by a MALE in her space?? This is a major abuse of women and girls.

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Aug 4, 2023Liked by Katrina Biggs

Didn’t one of the legal brains behind the Indonesian Guidelines that delivered this shit storm admit that they didn’t consider the effects upon women at all? That the woman on the team concentrated on the health policy only. Of course women WERE represented by trans women

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Aug 6, 2023Liked by Katrina Biggs

Sure am :( that's right - I was so shocked that she recognized this 'woman' was male despite clothing etc... I didn't know what to say. When are girls allowed to say "get out of my space?" And this feels uncomfortable?? We are all being told our discomfort is hate speech! This is nothing more than abuse against women and girls.

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Aug 4, 2023Liked by Katrina Biggs

I wonder if the muddled state on non-information on the Human Rights Commission webpage is because they still have a finger to the wind, trying to find out just how far they can go without getting massive complaints from those of us who have left the "be kind" brigade? Talking to people I meet (who tend to be in in an older age bracket), either they haven't got a clue that this shit is actually happening or they make a joke/downplay it. I had one acquaintance comment that "this will all blow over soon". If only this was true!

How many children will be permanently mutilated and turned into lifelong medical patients (that we will all be paying for) before this "blows over"? How many women will quit sports because they don't want to play on mixed sex teams? How many already traumatised women prisoners will have to cope with men in their spaces?

How many women have to be harmed before they are important enough to be regarded as worthy of being listened to?

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Aug 8, 2023Liked by Katrina Biggs

Yes and what are we supposed to say as mums ? It used to be easy "there should NEVER be a man in the women's spaces so you can report him and ask him to leave". Now, what are we supposed to say??? "I know it's not right but we are not allowed to ask him to leave as he thinks hes a woman"??? When is my young daughter allowed to say "get out" to a man when she is getting changed or using the toilet??

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Aug 4, 2023Liked by Katrina Biggs

Interesting that NZ does have searchable Human Rights Law, ‘having just been forced to make searches regarding accessing my own home during Pride. (Pride used to deliver wristbands). This year residents have to queue up at specified times (‘am disabled) to obtain wristbands (“papers”) with photo ID and proof of address( !) so we can go about our business. ‘Don’t think ‘will have the energy and just can’t face so ‘hoping not to have stand up row like my neighbour, who was forced to wait by barriers and then followed to her front door one year.

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Aug 4, 2023Liked by Katrina Biggs

Well spotted

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I'm a pedant so I'm going to say that it's 'implies' not infers.

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